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No Pressure Writing; Create a Plan of Happiness

December 31, 2023 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

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Writers often have a myriad of thoughts come New Year’s Eve. To set a resolution or not? Should you start a new novel? Maybe even start two or three to see which one flows from you best. Or, do you spend more marketing time and dollars to promote a former project? What about social media and public appearances? Should making yourself more visible become a goal? I believe that being productive and applying pressure to oneself aren’t necessarily in sync. You might find that you are more productive when working on something that you truly enjoy. If sitting down with your latest project causes you to venture into the kitchen for a snack, take that into consideration. Similarly, if marketing fills you with dread, maybe find a friendly blogger who can help you out. Writing is a creative endeavor that should fill you with happiness. If you are find that your writing endeavor comes with pressures, examine if these are self-inflicted pressures. Instead of feeling like you must create goals, why not create a plan of happiness?

It’s Okay to Ditch a Project

I once read that Stephen King has a running list of book ideas, starts a few at the same time, and then continues to pursue the one that takes off. Considering that he is one of our most prolific authors today, this tact might serve you as well. But one has to find acceptance that the idea you thought was brilliant might not come to fruition. Sometimes a project starts off okay, but loses steam along the way, just like The Little Engine that Could. Similar to that magical children’s book, you don’t give up. You simply find another way to pursue your writing goals, and if that means an entire new project, so be it. 

Try Different Voices

Just because you’ve found success as a romance writer, doesn’t mean you have to always write romance. It’s akin to owning a beautiful purple shirt, receiving tons of compliments when you wear it, and then deciding that you must always wear purple. I recognize that writers must spend a considerable amount of time doing marketing, which includes branding themselves in a particular genre. However, there are ways to signal to your readers that you are writing in multiple genres. Nora Roberts, acclaimed romance writer, warned her readers that she was experimenting in the thriller genre when she created the pen name, J.D. Robb. In order to maintain her audience, she let readers know that J.D. Robb was still her, but the name swap was used to let readers know that they would experience a different genre.

Other writers will use a clever tagline after the title of their novel to give readers a head’s up of the genre or book collection. For instance, Robyn Carr, the author whose book, Virgin River, spawned the Netflix series, uses the Virgin River moniker after the names of her subsequent books to show a connection, such as Shelter Mountain, a Virgin River novel. You can write in new genres and create new series. Consider this: Just as you might like a change of pace, so might your your fans.

This brings up my next point…

Writers Must be Readers

Part of finding inspiration is exposing yourself to new ideas. Read new authors, both traditionally published and self-published. There is no longer any truth that one is better than the other. As the phrase goes, “The cream will rise to the top.” Readers are discerning and they will let you know their opinions freely. This is a good thing. It makes writers try harder. It creates a community of readers. Best of all, reading and writing are two of the greatest pleasures that inspire generations. So as you enter the new year, remove any pressure to write a certain amount, to read a certain amount, and instead, create a plan of happiness that simply includes both.

Happy New Year Everyone!

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Goodbye Daylight Savings

November 2, 2015 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

mistress of the darkness

As a writer, this is my favorite time of year. Not because of the abundance of chocolate lurking and ripe for the taking thanks to my kids’ trick or treating efforts. Not because of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday. But because I say goodbye daylight savings and cheer that it coincides with #NaNoWriMo — national novel writing month.

The house is dark and my internal clock hasn’t yet adjusted to the new time change. So, rather than force the issue, I’m up at 5:30 — an hour before the rest of the house — and this time is mine to write! Halloween may be over, but I’m still Mistress of the Darkness.

For one hour, I won’t be making school lunches, feeding the dogs, catching up on laundry, locating homework, or any of the other what seems like 250 million chores that occur between the hours of 6:30 a.m. and 7:30 a.m. when the mad dash to three different schools takes place.

Writing. That’s all I’m doing. NaNoWriMo kicking off is a bonus. Sure, it would be nice to have 50,000 words under my belt in a month, but my real goal is to just keep with the schedule of devoting this extra hour a day to my novel.

So, if it you haven’t adjusted to the time difference, embrace the darkness! Get your write on.

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An Excuse to Eavesdrop

October 26, 2015 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

An Excuse to EavesdropWriter’s block happens to the best of us. You shouldn’t berate yourself that it happens, unless your response to it is to wallow in self-pity. Let’s get to the bottom of this with a snappy quiz.

When writer’s block occurs do you?

  1. Drown in sadness, perhaps with a bag of marshmallows by your side?
  2. Retreat under the covers. Maybe the answer will come to you in a dream.
  3. Eavesdrop!

If you answered “C,” you already know that listening and more importantly, observing those around you can be great inspiration for your writing. But if you’re not convinced that eavesdropping is an acceptable social habit, allow me to present you with your excuse to eavesdrop. Here are the benefits of eavesdropping on your writing:

  • Read reactions. Can you guess in advance what a person will say/do?
  • Authentic dialogue. Listen and you’ll be more aware of how people naturally speak.
  • Become a keen observer. Pay attention to body language and expressions.
  • Social behavior. Become an authority on how people engage with each other.

So where do you go for prime eavesdropping? Here are my favorite spots:

– grocery store check out

– coffee shops

– schools

Now go test it out. Here’s your homework assignment:

Watch a couple and decide how well they know each other. Is this a date? Is it a first date? Was it a set up or a blind date? Or, is it something completely different? Is the man trying to pick up the woman and she hasn’t yet figured out how to get rid of him?

You might not get it right the first time, but if you watch enough people, you get a feel for social behavior. Furthermore, these telltale signs will work their way into your writing to make your scenes more realistic and authentic.

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Why Writers Procrastinate

July 20, 2015 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

Why Writers Procrastinate

There are lots of reasons why writers procrastinate about writing. Here are some that plague me from time to time:

The sun is shining and I’d rather be outdoors.
I’ve got company arriving and I need to cook.
I misplaced my imagination and I need to find inspiration.

Now, let me tell you my personal solutions. Numbers one and two above are easy fixes. If it’s a beautiful day and you want to be outdoors, then go. But, take a notepad with you. Sometimes just being in a change of scenery is enough to make you want to write. Be observant and you might even stumble upon an idea for a new story.

When company is calling and I need to prepare, I think of how that time spent in the kitchen can translate to my writing. If anyone follows my blog you’ll notice that I often post recipes and photos of my dishes. I love to cook. There’s no reason to halt one hobby in place of another. If I’m going to entertain a friend for afternoon tea and make lemon bars (bites of heavenly sunshine), you’ll probably find one of my characters is either going to make them as well or find a local bakery to sample them.

Now we come to the tough one…misplaced imagination. You’ve looked under the bed, behind the closed door and still that stubborn piece of inspiration remains hidden in the recesses of your mind. Where is it? Read this article and repeat. Go outdoors. Make a batch of cookies. Think of your story as you do it. Most importantly, trust as you procrastinate that something will evolve.

There’s really no such thing as procrastination if you keep your mind open to the possibilities as you do whatever activity is driving you. Now you know that I go outdoors or cook when the writing muse is on vacation. What do you do?

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My Peach Tree Died

June 29, 2015 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

Peach Tree

My peach tree died but my writing is alive and well. This might sound like a Twitter tweet and indeed, at 53 characters it could be one, but it’s also my daily dose of inspiration.

True, I’m a horrible gardener. Although I love staring at Pinterest photos of beautiful gardens and the idea of going outside to pick my own fruit or vegetables sounds like a glorious lesson to teach my children, I just don’t have the passion for it.

Perhaps it’s also a matter of time. I live in a very hot climate and to give that peach tree the attention it needed would have meant hours of pruning, weeding around its base, creating a barrier so it was protected from gophers, and yes…water. Too bad there’s a draught going on and my area was told to lay off the excessive watering. But the truth is whenever it was cool enough outside to do this work, I chose to sit in front of my computer with my stories.

Passion + Time Put In = Success

I have it for my writing, but not so much for my garden. But I’ve decided to be okay with that. Pursue your passions and watch yourself flourish!

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Help for Busy Writers

June 5, 2015 by Mia Fox Leave a Comment

 

 

I think it’s  important to recognize that in our quest to “do it all” and “have it all” that sometimes it’s just not possible. However, there is help for busy writers in the form of online tour companies who will assist in finding bloggers to shout out your latest book news.

While I do take an interest in the marketing of my books, I prefer to focus more on my writing and let others help me in that area. After all, that’s their expertise. So, how do you find one of these companies? Remember, Google is your friend. Aside from that, you can look at other author’s websites and FB pages as they will most likely give a plug for someone who has helped them.

My favorite tour company is My Family’s Heart. They are professional in their response time, which is the most important thing to me. They also work with a healthy number of bloggers, create beautiful graphics for authors and have a fabulous reporting method. What’s not to love?

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My Family’s Heart can be found on Google+, Facebook, Twitter, and of course, their own website.

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